20
Sep

planetbrownbabes:

the-porcelain-empress:

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

Abusive relationships are incredibly difficult to get out of because of the abuse. Abusers emotionally manipulate the people they are abusing and make them think they deserve it or that its not abuse. You’ve got to take into account that emotional manipulation has a large effect on people and can easily be enough to convince a person that they should not leave the relationship. Also not a lot of people are aware that abuse without physical violence is still abuse, because very little is said about it. It is not stupidity it is being the victim of emotional abuse.

Escaping emotional abuse is as easy as closing tumblr when you get hate mail. 

Walking out on someone that harms you is as easy as calling the cops or a crisis hotline. 

Exposing your kids to an abusive spouse in stead of leaving is abusive towards the kids.

It’s not that complicated. You defend yourself. You leave. Those who don’t are too weak to function anyway. No normal person accepts being abused.

And if the abuser FINDS THEM or the police doesn’t do shit or the abuser has friends in high places?

Honey you fucking try and be in an abusive relationship and see how fucking easy it is.

Cold hearted bitch.

There is such a thing as self defense. restraining orders, protection programs.  If they violently attack you you can kill them.

Being cold hearted helps me deal with these situations, not whine like a bitch.

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Anonymous uttered:

Using the word "retard" as an insult is offensive to retarded people. I would suggest you stop using that word in the form of an insult because, along with being both offensive and incredibly rude, it is extremely unnecessary. Being retarded is a legitimate condition, and misusing the word is disrespectful. Please consider this before using that word incorrectly again.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Not all words are fine to use. Slurs such as r*tard and many others have been used commonly as a way to belittle and discriminate against a certain group or to make the group using it seem superior. Due to this if you are a part of the group that used it in this way, if you use it again that meaning comes back, whether that was your intention or not. So if you use a slur that means you are being offensive to that group. The group that it is against can reclaim the slur, because they have never used it to belittle or gain superiority over a group and therefore when they use it it is not offensive to any group. So it is not okay for all people to use all words.

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In philosophy and linguistics, the sense of a linguistic expression, sometimes understood in contrast to its referent. For example, the expressions “the morning star” and “the evening star” have different meanings, though their referent (Venus) is the same. 

In other words RETARDS and NIGGER and such can have more than one meaning and more than one usage. Blacks call each other nigger thus the word isn’t a slur by definition. Retardism is a medical condition not a slur by definition.

Also saying which words are Ok and which aren’t is CENSORSHIP

Also using a * to try to censor a word is RETARDED

You are incredibly ableist and have no knowledge about how slurs work. Is suggest you read through what I said a few times to get it in your head.

I think 3 years with 5 different classes on Linguistics taught me enough. Why don’t you pick up a book too? See what sociolinguistics is, check out how a shit ton of words have more than one meaning. 

answered 20 hours ago @ 07:07 am with 43 notes via/source
20
Sep

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

drejofvalenwood:

"Anxiety disorders aren’t real and you’re all pussies for thinking so! But I have bipolar disorder and I don’t take my meds because I want to be in control of my brain!"

Doesn’t stop you from being a shit person, really.

1. Anxiety is an umbrella term not a disorder itself

2. GAD is easily treatable and preventable.

3. Only pussies complain about small issues

4. My bipolarity has nothing to do with anxiety disorders.

5. Neither does me not taking meds.

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Do you know what having an anxiety disorder is like? It has gotten in the way of so many things. I cannot do things properly and its not my fault its just I’m terrified that something bad will happen and I know that these things aren’t likely to happen or they aren’t a big deal and its irrational to worry about it but I’m still terrified of it happening and its controlling my life and it has nothing to do with weakness.

Nobody cares about your sad story.

Those are the facts. If you are too much of a weakling or if you enjoy the attention that comes from having an illness then that’s on you. But don’t drag others down with you. People can easily prevent and treat anxiety. 

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pro-choiceorfuckoff:

Abusive relationships are incredibly difficult to get out of because of the abuse. Abusers emotionally manipulate the people they are abusing and make them think they deserve it or that its not abuse. You’ve got to take into account that emotional manipulation has a large effect on people and can easily be enough to convince a person that they should not leave the relationship. Also not a lot of people are aware that abuse without physical violence is still abuse, because very little is said about it. It is not stupidity it is being the victim of emotional abuse.

Escaping emotional abuse is as easy as closing tumblr when you get hate mail. 

Walking out on someone that harms you is as easy as calling the cops or a crisis hotline. 

Exposing your kids to an abusive spouse in stead of leaving is abusive towards the kids.

It’s not that complicated. You defend yourself. You leave. Those who don’t are too weak to function anyway. No normal person accepts being abused.

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pro-choiceorfuckoff:

I care. Other lgbt people care. People should care at least to the point where they are aware that I am not straight. Its not like I want them to worship me or anything I just want to be treated as an average human being who happens to be bisexual. And I want to be able to talk about being bisexual without being accused of shoving my sexuality down people’s throats while almost every single couple in every tv show, film and popular book is heterosexual (who’s shoving their sexuality down people’s throats now hmm).

90% of the world’s population is straight. Your parents are straight. Or are they also shoving their sexuality down your throat?
Straight people don’t talk about how great it is to be straight. They don’t have straight clubs in school. They don’t have Straight Pride parades. They don’t have straight awareness months. 
You are the only ones being loud and obnoxious and naked on the streets in front of kids.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

I care. Other lgbt people care. People should care at least to the point where they are aware that I am not straight. Its not like I want them to worship me or anything I just want to be treated as an average human being who happens to be bisexual. And I want to be able to talk about being bisexual without being accused of shoving my sexuality down people’s throats while almost every single couple in every tv show, film and popular book is heterosexual (who’s shoving their sexuality down people’s throats now hmm).

90% of the world’s population is straight. Your parents are straight. Or are they also shoving their sexuality down your throat?

Straight people don’t talk about how great it is to be straight. They don’t have straight clubs in school. They don’t have Straight Pride parades. They don’t have straight awareness months. 

You are the only ones being loud and obnoxious and naked on the streets in front of kids.

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Sep
Anonymous uttered:

Your a Fuckjng prick for saying all kids need to fit in. Kids find care about that shit. They care about their drawings and toys. Not if some kids hair is purple. It's fucking cute and if her mom cared that much to help her in sure she would have made sure she got heathy die. Fuck your soul.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Healthy dye.

Healthy dye that one can get from imaginary stores in the fairytale land of Feminism where nothing is child abuse, not even pouring chemicals on your kid’s head and turning them into a hyper sexualized feminist statement of “freedom of choice”.

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Do you know what’s in shampoos? Chemicals. Do you know what’s in creams and medicines? Chemicals. Do you know what’s in food, both processed and natural? Chemicals. Do you know what’s in your body? Chemicals. Better run in terror from the even chemicals that feminists are apparently using to destroy the earth. And feminists are not terrible mothers. And freedom of choice is important (unless your choice is to bully, discriminate against, harass or hurt people. Then you’re just being an asshole)

Here, take it from a hairstylist.  Under 16 is not OK. Kids, especially toddlers as is the case, can’t handle hair dye. That’s a no brainer. Oh wait…

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:50 am with 21 notes via/source
20
Sep
Anonymous uttered:

So let me get this straight: you're not exactly transphobic nor homophobic, you're just indifferent towards those who are transgender or homosexual. You just dislike how they parade their lifestyle for the world to see when they have no reason to. I'm sorry if this is inaccurate. I'm a new follower and I'm just trying to figure you out your beliefs. Have a nice day!!

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

That is transphobia and homophobia.

This is personal choice. You can’t police people’s beliefs and opinions. If they get violent, arrest them. But you can’t call someone names for having a different opinion. That’s slander.

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:45 am with 41 notes via/source
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Sep
theaffairchicagopdfan-deactivat uttered:

"Your sexuality has no business in school, etc"- tell that to the bullies who harass gay students to the point of suicide then. They are the ones making an issue of a persons sexuality.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

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You can get bullied for anything. Being fat, nerdy, stupid, poor, etc. And it’s up to each and every one of us to learn to deal with that. I can teach kids how to be strong but it’s impossible to stop bullying. 

Okay let me tell you about my own experiences with suicidal thoughts and how it is not a choice. Whenever I have felt suicidal its not me thinking “today I’ll feel like dying” it is an overwhelming sadness but its really more than sadness its a bit of sadness but its also a crushing feeling of numbness and emptiness. This feeling twists almost everything that happens into a reason to stop living and its not the person thinking this. I’m not an expert in the brain so I can’t explain all the science stuff, I just know from experience how it feels, so I can’t explain exactly what this feeling is and does. Its just a feeling that everybody would be better off with you dead and its like dying is the best option. At the same time as this (for me anyway) there’s another thought which is a little more positive, although not much. This thought is more like “wtf suicide is not a good option people don’t hate you don’t kill yourself”. The strength if the thoughts vary and you have no control over which one is stronger. When the suicidal thoughts are stronger than the non suicidal thoughts, that’s when you feel the most suicidal. While technically the actual act of killing yourself could be loosely considered a choice, the ratio of the feelings and thoughts you look at are beyond your control so really it is not a choice at all. Its just sometimes the overwhelming sadness becomes too overwhelming and you don’t think about not killing yourself. So suicide is not a choice.

As for the second bit, yes it is entirely possible to get rid if bullying. And sometimes it is impossible for the person being bullied to deal with it.

Lemme tell you my story about my 5 suicide attempts due to rapid cycling bipolar disorder. Oh wait, they don’t matter. Because personal experience is not an argument. 

You know who else doesn’t think suicide is a choice? Those that are against human euthanasia. Those that leave suffering people to rot in pain in stead of respecting their CHOICE TO DIE

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:44 am with 38 notes via/source
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Sep
Anonymous uttered:

its not abuse to dye your child's hair when they want and ask for their hair dyed and its most definitely not feminism to put down another person for dyeing their child's hair when the child wanted and asked for their hair to be dyed. please reevaluate yourself thoroughly and wholeheartedly. also it cant be safe for children to have a bipolar teacher not taking the correct. or any, medication. you are hypocritical and twisted.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Kids can ask for their nose to be pierced.

YOU DON’T GIVE KIDS EVERYTHING THEY WANT 

Hair is not permanent. Hair dye is not stabbing a hole in your body. Hair dying and piercings are not equatable.

In case you didn’t know sexualizing kids is not ok. Making your kid look like a hentai character is not ok. You sick fuck.

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:40 am with 13 notes via/source
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Sep
the-bronx-remembers uttered:

"Bully awareness" has done nothing but coddle and weaken already coddled and weak kids. I graduated hs in the class of 92, back when the world was way worse. The only solution for dealing with bullies is to fight back fiercely to the point that they think twice the next time they wanna fuck with you.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

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Wow fight back against the bullies. So easy when you spend most of your time in school feeling suicidal. Brilliant plan when you have anxiety so bad that you usually don’t speak unless something goes wrong. Great plan when you know from experience that fighting back will only make it worse. Superb idea when there is a high chance that the teacher will only walk in when your fighting back and you get in trouble because the only witnesses are the bully’s friends who all stick up for them.

Seriously anybody who considers bullying “character building” or anything of the sort is an automatic arsehole and does not deserve to be in any job in a school or involving children.

Anxiety, panic and depression are very rare in children. Those kids don’t belong in public schools anyway. They need professional help, not a teacher to side with them during lunch break only to get bullied outside of school.

You are nurturing mental illness by arguing continuous exposure to an environment these kids are not able to handle. You are arguing for teachers to foster mental illness by avoiding the real problem which isn’t the bully.

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:38 am with 27 notes via/source
20
Sep
Anonymous uttered:

How can you possibly say the woman who dyed her child's hair is unfit to be a parent and knows nothing about her education? Do you have a child of your own? Nah didn't think so!

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Hoe can you possibly say that the people that club seals are unfit to be seal owners and know nothing about their needs? Do you have seals of your own? Nah, didn’t think so!

Dying a young persons hair is not the same as clubbing them to death.

It’s called an allegory.

al·le·go·ry

 noun \ˈa-lə-ˌgr-ē\

: a story in which the characters and events are symbols that stand for ideas about human life or for a political or historical situation

plural al·le·go·ries
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20
Sep
Anonymous uttered:

I'm Jewish and I'm not comfortable with the way that you are talking about the holocaust. Hitler was a horrible and so were the Nazis. The Nazis killed 5 of my family members, and it is a sensitive subject to me.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

knight-of-antioch:

the-porcelain-empress:

Here’s a thought : get over it !

Oy vey, my grandmotha died in da holocaust when she was only 6 ya anti-suhmitic bastahd! SIX, I TELL YOU!

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Somebody needs to sit this arsehole down and educate them on the holocaust and why their behaviour is unacceptable and immature.

Oh, Ok. Why don’t we start with fake memoirs? Or would you rather we jump right in on why there is no way 6 million Jews died in the Holocaust?

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:30 am with 62 notes via/source
20
Sep
Anonymous uttered:

NOBODY ASKS FOR RAPE. RAPE IS SEXUAL ABUSE. NOBODY WANTS TO BE ABUSED, SEXUALLY OR OTHERWISE. Claiming that "they were asking for it" is ridiculous.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Except nobody is looking for the trouble. The trouble comes to them and the rapist is the one that should be blamed, never the victim.

It’s called exploitability. Some people just look like they are asking for it. Why would you encourage people to become targets for violence?

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:26 am with 15 notes via/source
20
Sep
Anonymous uttered:

Using the word "retard" as an insult is offensive to retarded people. I would suggest you stop using that word in the form of an insult because, along with being both offensive and incredibly rude, it is extremely unnecessary. Being retarded is a legitimate condition, and misusing the word is disrespectful. Please consider this before using that word incorrectly again.

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

Not all words are fine to use. Slurs such as r*tard and many others have been used commonly as a way to belittle and discriminate against a certain group or to make the group using it seem superior. Due to this if you are a part of the group that used it in this way, if you use it again that meaning comes back, whether that was your intention or not. So if you use a slur that means you are being offensive to that group. The group that it is against can reclaim the slur, because they have never used it to belittle or gain superiority over a group and therefore when they use it it is not offensive to any group. So it is not okay for all people to use all words.

In philosophy and linguistics, the sense of a linguistic expression, sometimes understood in contrast to its referent. For example, the expressions “the morning star” and “the evening star” have different meanings, though their referent (Venus) is the same. 

In other words RETARDS and NIGGER and such can have more than one meaning and more than one usage. Blacks call each other nigger thus the word isn’t a slur by definition. Retardism is a medical condition not a slur by definition.

Also saying which words are Ok and which aren’t is CENSORSHIP

Also using a * to try to censor a word is RETARDED

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:17 am with 43 notes via/source
20
Sep
digitalisim uttered:

You believe women's bodies should be controlled by other people? It seems so. In teaching your daughter that she must look the way you tell her to look, that's what you teach her. That's sad

pro-choiceorfuckoff:

the-porcelain-empress:

BETTER??

If a child that young was legally allowed to get facial piercings and tattoos, and had the mental capacity to decide to get them, it would be their choice. But seeing as none of those things are actually true, your argument is incredibly flawed.

You just shot yourself in the leg.

The whole point was that kids can’t consent to body modifications of any type. You just proved my point.

answered 21 hours ago @ 06:12 am with 62 notes via/source